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THE BLESSING of the HOPE
CHEST
by Jennie Chancey of the Vision Forum
"Throughout America's first two-and-a-half
centuries, parents gave each of their daughters a hope chest.
Beginning in childhood, a young woman quilted blankets,
embroidered sheets and towels, and collected many of the
household tools she would need when she entered her married
life. As the many treasures stored within the hope chest were
taken out and used in the coming years, the empty chest was
filled with family mementos, often including the bride's
wedding gown, special keepsakes, and other personal treasures
that would be passed down to the coming generations.
"My parents gave me my own hope chest when I was 12
years old. They purchased an antique trunk and refinished it
by hand. My mother then papered the inside with a beautiful
liner and began to put things in the trunk that she wished to
pass down to me. Into the trunk went my heirloom tea set, a
length of lace tatted by my great-grandmother, my first set
of dishes and mementos, each of which reminded me of my
parents' love and devotion. I also added things to the trunk
over the years, including a sampler I embroidered and several
journals I had filled. When I was married, I enjoyed
unpacking all of my treasures to use in my new home, and my
trunk now graces my living room, where it holds special gifts
I intend to pass to my own children.
"The beautiful tradition of the hope chest has been lost
on our modern society. Many do not see continuity between
generations, and few believe that those who lived before us
have anything to offer our "enlightened" minds. Our ancestors
would mourn our folly. We have much to learn from our
parents, grandparents, and ancestors spanning the generations
before us. I am immensely thankful for the carefully
preserved letters and photographs that have been passed down
to me -- the resident family genealogist -- and I am even
more grateful to my parents for teaching me to embrace and
love the beliefs and traditions of their parents and
grandparents.
"It is not enough to store beautiful things in an
heirloom chest and hope for the best. We must impress
beautiful thoughts and high ideals upon our girls if we hope
to see their lives blossom into rewarding womanhood. A hope
chest is a wonderful way to bring to life an old tradition or
begin a new one. As we place treasures into hope chests for
our daughters, may we also invest time and love into their
hearts so that they enter life with a storehouse of love,
womanly skills, able minds, and contentment."
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A message from the Vision Forum:
When we published our second edition of
The Beautiful Girlhood Collection this year, we knew we
were launching a direct attack against the feminist elites
who, for decades, have fought to undermine the significance
of virtue, femininity, and home in the life of a girl. We
continue to aspire, by the grace of God, to encourage the
rebuilding of a culture of biblical womanhood. We dare to
say that boys and girls are different, and that such
differences should be emphasized, not ignored. In a world
that frowns on femininity, that minimizes motherhood, and
that belittles the beauty of being a true woman of God, we
dare to believe that the biblical vision for girlhood is a
glorious vision. It is, in fact -- a beautiful vision. It
is a vision for purity and contentment, for faith and
fortitude, for enthusiasm and industry, for heritage and
home, and for joy and friendship. It is a vision so bright
and so wonderful that it must be boldly proclaimed.
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